it hurts a LOT when people told you that u are gemuk! instead of saying other people gemok, why don't you use a decent word something like " hey miss u put on weight huh?''. that's probably won't hurt her feeling as much as the word gemok !! one more thing, when u gained kg, u eventually will become very sensitive over body image issues. its true. so plsssss~ plus normally the word gemok will come from skinny girl. ye la aku tau la ko kurus !! sakit hati tau tak... can u respect org lain?? betul la, the truth HURTS !!